Save Budget: Budget Bestie Method Saves You $300 a month


As I gather with friends and family and reflect on the year, it’s a perfect time to reflect on my financial goals and aspirations. That work begins with reflecting on my life, relationship with money, and closing out my budget, which I like to call my Budget Bestie!

Read on for money-saving budget tips!

Reflecting on your life and relationship with money

The end of the year is a perfect time to reflect on your life as a whole and celebrate how far you've come. How is your relationship with money? Have you ever been embarrassed about your financial situation? I know I have. I grew up in Indiana. I didn't live with my parents most of my life growing up. I bounced around and lived with several different family members and even family friends throughout my childhood. When I started working at 14, I learned quickly to hold on to whatever little money I had. At 15, I opened my first checking account (under my uncle's account) and learned how to use a check register to manage my paychecks from McDonald's, where I worked at the time. I'm thankful for my childhood because I learned how hard it is to earn a dollar and just how easy it is to spend it. I always think about my early experiences around money and how they've shaped my frugal nature. I'm a firm believer that I must be open and honest about where I come from and where I am currently financially so that I can take the appropriate actions to set myself up for a better financial future.

Budget categories to assess at the end of the year

In my opinion, the purpose of a budget is to spend as little as necessary on most expenses to have more money to spend on the experiences I value. I also aim to invest in passive income streams. As silly as it sounds, my budget has become like a best friend, or bestie, because I communicate with it regularly, and it knows everything about me and my finances! Tip: A good budget has totals for each category that are automatically summed for you. It’s also nice to see the entire year on one spreadsheet.

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Budget Category Budget Bestie

I review my budget category totals in my Budget Bestie spreadsheet at the end of the year. I focus on the categories with the highest totals first and assess if there is any way I can or would be willing to reduce the expense. As you can imagine, the highest expenses are usually taxes, housing, transportation, and food.


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Food ​is an area that literally eats up our budget. I constantly get asked, “how can I save money on groceries?” There are a few ways that I save on my grocery bill. Here are my favorite tips.

1.) Try a low-cost food store

I shop at Aldi and if there isn’t anything I can’t purchase at Aldi, I head to a larger grocery store. Aldi has vegan, gluten-free, and organic food options for less.

2.)Make a list before you go shopping.

I use a meal planner app. There are several grocery list and meal planning apps available for free. This keeps me on track while at the store, and I can quickly check off my list as I shop.


Housing is where some bravery comes into play. If you are uncomfortable with how much you are spending and not happy with how much you are saving, you may have to make some tough decisions. I know about this all too well. When I divorced in 2017 and looked at my end-of-the-year budget, I realized I had to sell my 3,000 square foot house and move someplace less expensive. Believe it or not, I felt a big relief when I moved into a tiny 2-bedroom home with rent that was $1,000 a month cheaper than my previous mortgage! You may not want to move, and in that case, brainstorm ways to lessen your housing expense or other expenses.

How to successfully close out your budget at the end of the year

Here is precisely how I close out my end-of-year budget. I print out my checking account and credit card statements and look at each transaction. There are likely subscriptions and autopay items that you don’t use or need to check into. One year, I had a Netflix charge on my credit card each month of the year, but I hadn’t even subscribed to Netflix at the time! What subscriptions can you eliminate?

I once again look at my Budget Bestie overall for the year. I take note of what items are due at certain times of year (e.g., my auto insurance is scheduled twice a year). I ensure that I am properly setting aside enough money in those months to cover the additional budget items. I also look at trends in my utility bills to ensure nothing seems out of order. If your water bill is slowly creeping each month, you could leak!

Finally, I examine my savings, retirement, and investment allocations. Then I ask myself a very important question, “am I saving enough?”. If you are unsure, check out Personal Capital’s free tools to get an idea of when you can retire and how much more you should invest to retire early. Good luck with your budget!

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